The other day I realized that my third trimester has slowly but surely crept up! Not certain if it’s due to this being my second baby or due to all the quarantine cooking (likely both), but my belly grew very big, very early this pregnancy. The wide-eyed “wow any day now!” or “twins??” comments from strangers at the grocery store started early second trimester ; )
This time around, I was excited to re-use a lot of pregnancy favorites from before that I had stored away. Here are a few of my must-haves to help stay comfortable amidst all the bodily changes, and to help maximize your existing wardrobe throughout pregnancy!
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First time around, I dismissed the idea of “maternity shapewear,” thinking they were purely aesthetic for smoothing out lumps in an area of my body that didn’t want to be restricted. This pregnancy, however, I finally gave these a try and have literally been wearing them every. single. day.
I’m going to refer to them as “support shorts” instead of shape wear, since I wear them under my outfits to help distribute the weight of my belly and alleviate lower back pain (any smoothing is just a bonus). I’m also carrying lower this time around and everything just feels looser and floppier in general, so supportive garments have been critical! I tried a bunch and kept these two pairs:
- Narcissuss shapewear shorts – in size Small, which are currently very fitted on me in my third trimester at 5′ tall, 118lbs. I don’t like my support shorts to be too restricting, so if your usual size feels too tight then try a size up.
- Belevation shapewear shorts – in size Small. These are very similar to the above so I’d recommend both. The shape of the supportive area on the Narcissus brand just feels a little better on my current low hanging belly.
2. Body Pillow (also great for non-pregnancy)
This is actually something I’d happily recommend to everyone (husbands, kids and pets included, based on testaments from fellow fans of this!). I’ve tried several, but the one that has stayed with me over the past 3 years throughout my first pregnancy, nursing, and the non-pregnancy years in between has been this compact bean-shaped Boppy (also sold at Target) . I’ve washed the cover countless times now and it’s held up well.
The gently curving shape allows me to use one end between the knees, and the other end below the belly. It can also be used for some light nursing support (not as thick or firm as My Brest Friend however which I loved for that purpose). Pillows are a very personal choice, and whether you want full body vs smaller, wedge versus round, firm vs soft… the options out there are plentiful! Note that this is a softer, fluffier pillow versus firm.
Great not just for pregnancy but also for weight fluctuations. I’ve needed this early on, as soon as my chest started expanding and all my bras became uncomfortable. This simple gadget comes in different colors and sizes (i.e. 2 rows of hooks vs. 3 rows of hooks) and is so easy to clip on to regular bras! Lots of options but here are two examples:
I wore my existing, stretchier undies as long as possible my first pregnancy, before finally caving to buy maternity ones and wondered why the heck I waited so long! The lower cut front to fit below a growing belly is just much more comfortable for me. Here are some options:
- Amazon maternity undies – I have this in the 3-pack basics sz S. They’re soft, stretchy and have held up well! Front is cut a little lower than the Uniqlo option.
- Uniqlo maternity undies – online only
- Kindred Bravely maternity undies – I don’t have these as I just came across them, but I love everything Kindred Bravely that I own for pregnancy, postpartum and nursing. Their items are always soft and wash well.
5. Bellaband for Pants & Postpartum
Also available in a lower-priced Target version.
If you like to wear shorts, pants, or jeans (compared to skirts and dresses) with regular button / zipper flies, then the this accessory was a must for me during pregnancy AND postpartum. It’s basically a stretchy tube with a silicone grip strip that you wear over an unbuttoned / unzipped fly on your regular non-maternity pants.
You can wear the band folded down in half, or flip it up for more full panel support. I have only tried the regular Bellaband in size 1 so can only speak to that one, but several of you also suggested the more affordable Target alternative. I wore this so much during and after pregnancy with Nori, I ended up buying it in black, blue, and white to go with all of my non-maternity denim and shorts!
Additional item: Ruched Dresses
I’ve purchased very few maternity-specific clothes and have gotten away with a lot of flowy or elastic waisted regular pieces. However, as your belly grows it definitely is nice to have a few go-to pieces specifically designed for maternity wear. For me, ruched dresses are a no-brainer since they can stretch a lot at the belly, and are flattering across different stages of pregnancy!
- 1st to 2nd trimester: can get away comfortably in non-maternity pieces like this ruched Leith dress (on major sale!). When not pregnant, this dress is very slimming as well – see it on me when not pregnant.
- 2nd to 3rd trimester: Been loving this Old Navy jersey bodycon dress that fit a lot better on me after a machine wash & dry! I love the length for everyday wear, with no worries about the bottom riding up while you walk. The belly area is still a tad loose on me with room to grow into. See more affordable Old Navy maternity options here.
- 2nd to 3rd trimester: Amazon floral maternity dress. So soft and comfortable but not too petite friendly, however I only had to make a few small alterations, as shown here, to make it fit my shorter frame better. The shoulder strap shortening is very easy to do, and the tapering on the bottom is not really necessary. Compared to the two dresses above, this runs bigger, which I needed towards the end of my pregnancy!
Mamas, what were / are some of your top maternity must haves?