PJ top + wool layers (& how to tie a rectangular scarf)

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Shirt from J.Crew pajama set, scarf from street vendor, Zara boys jacket (taken in), Boden bag c/o
J.Brand legging jeans (hemmed, similar), Adrienne Vittadini booties (similar here or here in sz 5+)

Not sure how I’ve gone through so many winters without flannel PJs – these are so warm and comfy, I didn’t bother changing out of the top. Both pieces of the xxs regular set (was $36 in-stores) required several inches of hemming, however, so I’d recommend petite ladies to look into either capri-style or kids sets.

Recently in a post on casual staples, a few of you asked for a scarf tying tutorial. This is one of my favorite ways to wear longer scarves, and the look changes up a bit depending on the fabric thickness. From the graphic below: Steps 1-2) Criss-cross the ends of a long scarf behind the back of your neck, 3-4) Pull both ends in front of your chest and tie them once, loosely, below the first loop, 5-6) Fluff / reposition both loops. Easy peasy!
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  1. Unknown wrote:

    Love this! What is the lip color you're wearing?

    Posted 10.16.15 Reply
  2. I usually just read your blog and I don't think I have commented before, but hello!
    I was wondering where your jeans are from. The J Brand ones are similar but I really like the different color/faded look on the jeans in your picture, so I was wondering where you got those. Yay love your blog!

    Posted 3.4.14 Reply
  3. Jean, on Jan 20 2014, you wore some Gucci sunglasses, could you give me the exact model or dimensions (ex. 59-15-135, etc.). I have a narrow face like yours and would love this pair. Where to buy for reasonable price would be appreciated too. THANKS. Anne Ng.

    Posted 2.19.14 Reply
  4. Linda N. wrote:

    Your hair looks great up! Love the entire outfit, esp how the pj top doubles as a top!

    Posted 2.4.14 Reply
  5. Thanks for the scarf tying tutorial.

    Maggie A

    Posted 1.28.14 Reply
  6. Julie K. wrote:

    Scarf tying is something I really want to practice. It looks really easy, but as soon as I'm standing in front of the mirror, I change the loops and everything for hundred times and then I take off my scarf immediately, defeated. But this how-to sums it up perfectly and I'm looking forward to tie my scarf again!
    Also the idea about wearing the PJ top is marvellous. I wouldn't have guessed it's not a regular shirt.

    Posted 1.27.14 Reply
  7. Melissa L. wrote:

    Oh wow, thanks!! I am going to try this soon. You are such an inspiration and thank you for sharing your great ideas!!

    Posted 1.25.14 Reply
  8. Thippy wrote:

    Thank you so much for all of the great tips, Jean! I will definitely be on the lookout for some warm and comfy loafers tomorrow along with the fleeced lined tights (yes, i am very afraid of the cold, just the thought of a 'feels like a negative #' gives me chills).

    I remember reading your post from months ago about Uber and didn't even think to use them! I've heard nothing but great things about them from friends, so I will definitely be using them when I am there.

    I really appreciate your help and feel a bit better and more prepared for the trip now. Maybe I'll see you around the streets of Boston the next time I am there…hopefully it'll be warm out! 🙂

    Posted 1.25.14 Reply
  9. Jean wrote:

    You're in for a frigid treat! : ) If you don't plan on being outside except to hail a cab, you don't need the clunky boots or rainboots that I recommend to most travelers coming for tourism. Do you have flat black ankle-height boots or non-slip sole black flats that cover up a little more of your feet (ie. loafers?) That way they are compact enough to throw into a large purse when you're inside, if necessary. I'd definitely recommend getting some opqaue black tights. If you're especially afraid of the cold, you can look up fleece lined black tights for extra warmth. And oh, if you have a smartphone I would highly recommend using uber instead of taxis here to avoid aimlessly wandering/waiting outside in the freezing cold. It's also easy to reimburse for work trips b/c the receipt gets emailed to you. have a great trip!!

    Posted 1.24.14 Reply
  10. Jean wrote:

    Hi there – I honestly haven't taken tripod photos in a long time because I'm not the most technologically proficient when it comes to cameras. I'd recommend asking Kileen of http://www.cuteandlittle.com/ – she takes a lot of her own photos with a tripod and remote and they look amazing!

    Posted 1.24.14 Reply
  11. Jean wrote:

    Hi Jaimie! Thank you! If you hover over any of the images, a circular red Pinterest button should appear over the top left corner. Just click that button to pin – let me know if it doesn't work : )

    Posted 1.24.14 Reply
  12. Jean wrote:

    Thank you for your kind comment, Brittany! : ) Best of luck in your third (and last?) year of school! I saw that too about The Limited and am curious to try it. I have one or two pieces from there from ages ago that I got altered and still enjoy.

    Posted 1.24.14 Reply
  13. Jean wrote:

    Hi Vanessa – I have two favorite pairs of jeans…these J Brand legging ones retail for a lot but they hold their shape wonderfully and I love the sturdiness of the material. I also like Gap's legging jeans. They are stretchy and comfortable, and you can find petite/regular/tall sizing online. The fit is pretty snug and doesn't stretch out either.

    Posted 1.24.14 Reply
  14. Jean wrote:

    Aw thank you, Evelyn! I didn't even realize it was up!

    Posted 1.24.14 Reply
  15. Jean wrote:

    Thank you! They are Chanel tortoiseshell print sunglasses but are from ~3 years ago.

    Posted 1.24.14 Reply
  16. Jean wrote:

    No problem! And no, not at all…the drawstring is easy to use.

    Posted 1.24.14 Reply
  17. Anonymous wrote:

    I just booked my flight for a last minute work related trip to Boston and have been freaking out about the weather there. I've also been thinking long and hard about what to pack, buy and wear in the office, because I am definitely lacking in the 'winter clothes' category (I'm from SoCal)… Then it hits me, JEAN, duh!!! I love your reading your blog and looking at how you style the different pieces & colors! Any tips on the type of shoes I should buy/bring? I don't plan on being outside much, except for when trying to catch a taxi! Thanks! 🙂

    Posted 1.23.14 Reply
  18. Anonymous wrote:

    do you mind do a video on how to take your own picture with the tripod and remote control. From where to stand etc?? i want to do that but not sure how. thank you

    Posted 1.23.14 Reply
  19. Anonymous wrote:

    Hi Jean, thank you for the info. Is it hard to open and close the bag?

    Posted 1.23.14 Reply
  20. Bela Anzu wrote:

    This is a creative outfit using the pajamas top especially during this extremely cold winter. Thanks for doing a step-by-step tutorial on how to style the scarf. It's clear and easy to follow.

    Posted 1.23.14 Reply
  21. Jaimie wrote:

    Love all of your outfits!!! So put together. I am pretty petite and it's really hard to find things that work, but I love everything you wear. I wish your images were pinnable! 🙂

    Posted 1.22.14 Reply
  22. Anonymous wrote:

    I just discovered your blog and I loved it!! It is my style! I am preparing my new collection and I think it goes well with your style.
    Greetings from Spain.

    Posted 1.22.14 Reply
  23. Suzie Q wrote:

    I love how you styled flannel PJs into a chic casual outfit! Wouldn't even have been able to tell it was PJs, looks like a regular plaid shirt!

    Suzie Q

    Posted 1.22.14 Reply
  24. Brittany wrote:

    LOVE your blog and detailed reviews! I am a 3L who is trying to build my work wardrobe, and extrapetite has been my secret weapon. 🙂

    I wanted to let you know that The Limited just announced that they will start offering petite sizes in mid-February. I'm not sure how the quality of their clothing measures up, but I'm excited to potentially have a new resource!

    Posted 1.22.14 Reply
  25. Vanessa wrote:

    I love it! Where do you buy your jeans? They always fit so perfectly, mine are always too loose around my thighs!

    Posted 1.22.14 Reply
  26. Evelyn HE wrote:

    Hi Jean, I see you're on LOFT front page, you look polished! Bravo!

    Posted 1.21.14 Reply
  27. Anonymous wrote:

    Hi Jean. Love your blog! What brand are your sunglasses? Thanks.

    Posted 1.21.14 Reply
  28. Jean wrote:

    Thanks, Melissa! : ) I followed the same exact steps here: http://www.extrapetite.com/2011/09/hair-tutorial-voluminous-puffy-bun.html

    Posted 1.21.14 Reply
  29. Jean wrote:

    I like the design but personally prefer vintage leather bags that I've found on eBay. The cute design of the tan/navy trim bag instantly reminded me of a Coach legacy bucket bag I was eying back here: http://www.extrapetite.com/2013/11/thanksgiving-week-sales-and-deals.html and I do love the navy and white large polka dot lining. The leather is thick and seems durable, but is not the "buttery soft" type that some ppl look for. It seems similar to Coach's current leathers. This bag is designed to be worn three ways (hand-held top strap is adjustable to be long enough to sling over the shoulder) but the longest cross-body strap is too long for me even with extra holes.

    Posted 1.21.14 Reply
  30. Jean wrote:

    The XSP in navy stripe is back in stock : )

    Posted 1.21.14 Reply
  31. Michelle R wrote:

    Oh! Thanks for the useful post (that sounds like one of those spam comments!) I have a nice big scarf my sister gave me, but am new to tying those kinds. I will try this out to see if it works for the size I have…looks similar to yours.

    Posted 1.21.14 Reply
  32. Anonymous wrote:

    how do u like the bag from boden?

    Posted 1.21.14 Reply
  33. Anonymous wrote:

    Hello Jeans, this is not related to this post, but I wish old navy will bring back size XS in petite for the ponte-knit blazers. please alert when this size is back, so sad

    Posted 1.21.14 Reply
  34. Anonymous wrote:

    You look amazing all the time, Jean!! Love you!!

    Posted 1.20.14 Reply
  35. Very cute. I love the gloves.

    Posted 1.20.14 Reply
  36. Carol Li wrote:

    Thanks for sharing your scarf tutorial 🙂


    Posted 1.20.14 Reply
  37. LOVE that you're wearing a pajama top. So brill.


    Posted 1.20.14 Reply
  38. Lovely outfit!!!! <3

    Le monde des petites

    Posted 1.20.14 Reply
  39. EM wrote:

    Loving the casual look! You look great with your hair up 🙂


    Posted 1.20.14 Reply
  40. Love your look, always chic like a parisian !!

    Posted 1.20.14 Reply
  41. Angel wrote:

    heck yea! I love PJs and loungewear way too much 🙂 also love the scarf tying tip. warm and fashionable!


    Posted 1.20.14 Reply
  42. Melissa L. wrote:

    I love your casual up-do style here, would you do another hair tutorial on how you do that?

    Posted 1.20.14 Reply
  43. I love that shirt! Pyjama shirts are the best, so soft and so cozy to wear 😀

    X Sara

    Posted 1.20.14 Reply
  44. Beautiful combo of navy and brown! I am in to navy myself and I just love to see others styling around this color. You look stunning btw.

    "Borrowed from the boys: the bow tie" Blog post on:

    Posted 1.20.14 Reply
  45. I often wear my scarfs in the same way but I have to admit that I don´t look as great than you in casual outfits 🙂

    xx from Bavaria/Germany, Rena


    Posted 1.20.14 Reply
  46. Anonymous wrote:

    like always, you look chic and classy! Love love the outfit.

    Posted 1.20.14 Reply
  47. Iv wrote:

    Awesome outfit – Bonus points for your candor on the PJ top as a going out top =D

    Posted 1.20.14 Reply
  48. An Nicole wrote:

    I love this! I would never have guessed it was a PJ top, if you hadn't mentioned it.

    The Style Rx

    Posted 1.20.14 Reply
  49. i live in flannel in the winter. a veritable flannelpalooza, if it's possible. sheets, shirts, PJs, you name it! you look fantastic, Jean!

    Posted 1.20.14 Reply

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