Petite-friendly wedding dress search: Tadashi Shoji, Watters

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Aside from the foremost joy of getting to marry my best friend, one of the wedding things I was really looking forward to was getting to try on gowns of all sorts - including ones out of my typical style and comfort zone (since I never know what might be a pleasant surprise!). I've received numerous requests to share my search with you guys, and was of course excited to do so.
tadashi short white lace dress
Side note - isn't this Tadashi Shoji lace dress (also sold here in multiple colors) perfect for a shower, rehearsal dinner, or other bridal activities? Please note I have a little excess fabric clipped back behind me. 

Unfortunately, most bridal shops I went to did not allow photography of any kind. I was told this policy is to prevent people from going home and replicating the gown - which doesn't quite make sense to me since detailed photos of all the dresses I tried on are available online. Blogging aside, as a customer I would've loved the option to go home in a relaxed and sane state of mind, and review photos of how the dresses looked on my body before making a big purchasing decision (not to mention, share photos with relatives/friends who couldn't join the appointments). Nevertheless I respect the store policies, and just won't have too many styles to share about.

The only bridal shop I've visited so far that openly allowed photos was BHLDN (Anthropologie's wedding brand). The Chicago boutique where I had my first appointment happily let us snap dressing room photos, and the Boston store had no issue with me taking these shots. The most affordable wedding dress I've tried on so far is this Tadashi Shoji number which was simple yet romantic and elegant. The belt does not come with it, but a statement belt of some sort is key in my opinion to accentuate the waistline.
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Making this petite-friendly: For dresses with pretty edging or trim detail on the bottom, make sure that trim can be removed and re-attached after a hem gets shortened. It looked like (also based on the website info) the scallop trim here is transferable in case the dress needs to be hemmed. True to the reviews online, the dress isn't as mermaid-cut and shapely as the model makes it appear. This is not necessarily a bad thing since a tailor then has enough material to "shape" the sides based on your own curves and exact bust, waist, thigh and knee placement. Sizing starts at 00 regular, and reviews indicate it runs about a size big.

Next is this corset + full skirt set by Watters which was probably my favorite look at BHLDN. Although I do like my share of fit + flare shorter dresses, I never would've imagined myself to gravitate towards this princess-y ballgown look for a wedding dress. It turned out to be very flattering having a floor-length skirt flow from a higher waistline. Please note I'm standing on a dressing room platform in the photo below, so visually subtract at least ~6 inches in skirt length for reality. 
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My dark phone photos don't really do this set justice, as the corset detailing was gorgeous and the grosgrain ribbon waistband + tulle skirt was ethereal. I also did not mind the unconventional nude pink color. The main issue I had with this was how weighty the skirt was - I was told it's made of 60 meters of soft tulle which felt like several pounds (perhaps would be better hemmed). Below is Watters' own shoot, which I adore down to the vintage-inspired birdcage veil.
watters shoot
Making this petite-friendly: Bridal "separates" versus a 1-piece dress can work nicely for petite women, or actually any woman who has torso length or waist placement that doesn't usually fit standard sizing. It's harder to alter a set-in waistline on a one-piece dress, especially if it has embellishments or if the shoulders can't be raised, but it is easy to shift a skirt waistband up and down to the perfect spot and then taking in the width. You can also mix a different top or bottom half with separates to change up your look from the ceremony to reception.
 
For strapless dresses, I also can't imagine being without a snug-fitting bra that has some pushup power for smaller chests and does not slide down throughout the day. My favorite to date that meets both of these requirements is still The Little Bra Company "Sascha" convertible strapless bra, which starts in a tough-to-find size 28 band size (I took 32A). It worked well under these two dresses, and for backless or lower-back styles I would likely get the front half sewn into the dress.
TLBC sascha strapless bra
 (see my very old bra review)

Please note in all of my wedding dress photos on here and Instagram I'm trying on a sample size (ranging from 6 to 12), so the bust cups are not the proper size and extra material is clipped back. Based on my friends' experiences, every single one (regardless of size or height) got a decent amount of alterations on their dress even after ordering their appropriate size, in order to achieve that perfect fit. For petite ladies who really want to minimize alterations, a few retailers like J.Crew, David's Bridal, and Ann Taylor do offer ready-to-wear wedding dresses in petite sizing.

Readers who are married, I'd love to hear about your wedding dress story as well as any recommendations for custom gowns! Please also feel free to share a photo with me here - I have been absolutely loving all of your stunning dress pictures!

85 comments:

  1. You are the most beautiful bride Jean. You have the best taste

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  2. The first one is my favorite! The silhouette with a nicely jeweled touch is perfect on you! I just attended a friend's wedding yesterday and her gown had a similar style as yours. Would love to see you in that during your wedding :)

    Julia || Closet de Jules
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  3. The Watters one is so stunning on you. You make it look better than the model. Gorgeous!

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  4. I love the first dress!!! I'm a big fan of the trumpet style. yes most bridal boutiques don't allow pictures! they r scared of people copying their design and if you go to their website, most often times the images r kind of low res and u can't zoom into it for that reason!

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  5. I love the first dress the most! It looks amazing on you!
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    Miri
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  6. You're right in trying different styles, even those you think aren't "you!" I was set on a princess style and ended up with a mermaid silhouette. Mine was Vera Wang organza, with an added custom floral Vera sash to accentuate the waist, exactly like you mentioned. Enjoy your dress shopping, you will definitely remember it! :)

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  7. I love the blush fit + flare dress on you! So excited to read along as your dress search continues!

    xoxo,
    Andrea

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  8. LOVE the first dress. You look stunning.

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  9. Love the belt with the first dress!
    I found that `no photo' policies in these bridal shops weird...it is very difficult for brides-to-be to make a sane decision on the site...
    Anyway, you look absolutely amazing!

    xx
    Yvonne
    http://tellmeyblog.com

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  10. Looking really gorgeous! :D I do get how weird it is that they don't allow photography in some shops, because surely the whole point is to try on all teh things (not necessarily in the same shop) and try to consider more objectively later with phone evidence, rather than rely on overexcited OMG DRESS recollections!

    Anyway, these two gowns look gorgeous on you, and really does reflect the classic and elegant aesthetic you have shown in your daily wear! :D

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  11. Hi Jean, these gowns are gorgeous and the second one looks so much like you. Very delicate and elegant! I've written about my adventures on finding THE wedding dress, together with some tips for all brides out there: http://www.koffeepause.com/2014/09/the-perfect-wedding-dress-practical.html

    Good luck with the dress hunt! I'm looking forward to seeing your wedding pictures :)

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  12. The first one is amazing! You're so beautiful!

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  13. This post comes just in time as I'm planing to scout for a wedding dress for my wedding (although that's next year but a girl's gotta what she's gotta do, right!?). Your tips on the bra compartment and the statement accessories are so useful. Will check that bra out.

    To be honest, I love you in both slim elegant silhouette and princess-y full gown. Both suited you well and I don't think you look bottom-heavy for the princess gown. Maybe its due to the tulle being all soft and flowy which doesn't feel heavy on the bottom. The colour palette is perfect for your skin tone too. Congrats once again (don't remember congratulating you).

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  14. Many wedding dress designer offer "hollow-to-hem" adjustment for just a little extra money , which means the whole dress length is scaled down in proportion to fit the shorter distance between your neck hollow and where the hem should be. It's well worth it if you are petite and need an overall scaled-down dress and not just a simple hemming job on the skirt part. I am petite myself (5.2m, 00P) and bought my wedding gown from Birnbaum & Bullock, a NY-based designer. They offer hollow-to-hem adjustment for just an extra $100. I went for this option and otherwise ordered the smallest regular size, which was a zero. The proportions and length of the dress were absolutely perfect on me and I just had to take in the sides a bit, which was an easy job for the seamstress and not very expensive either. So, if you are unsure about where to find a wedding dress for petites, look for designers that offer hollow-to-hem adjustment.

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  15. I am in love with the nude pink dress. It is beyond divine!

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  16. Congrats, Jean! My dress was made by Jenny Lee. She is a petite designer herself, so she makes some petite-friendly dresses.

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  17. For my wedding dress, they ended up ordering a custom bodice for me (so the waist would be at the right point), it cost extra but meant that alterations were easier (they still ended up having to take in the shoulders, which annoyed me to a great degree.

    I really encourage looking at Victor Harper which really flattered my petite self (its Kenneth Pool/Austin Scarlett designing under a different name). They are seriously gorgeous dresses.

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  18. Hi Jean! You are just beautiful and will look gorgeous in whichever gown you choose! I got married last summer and wanted to share some gown info with you. I got a fit and flare gown from Maggie Sottero and they have the option of getting petite sizing as well as getting 5" taken off the length of your gown when you order it. I am just shy of 5' and was pleasantly surprised to find that the length of my gown was perfect when it arrived and I did not need to have any additional length taken off. Just needed some adjustments in the top. It was also a corset back so that helped as well. Good luck to you and enjoy this exciting time!!

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  19. FYI, the Jenny Wu boutique in NYC allows tons of photos! During my dress search I went there with a bunch of girlfriends and was able to send photos back home to my mom. Her dresses are gorgeous and simple, as well.

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  20. Sorry, not "Jenny Wu," it's "Jenny YOO."

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  21. Hi Jean! You look wonderful in that Tadashi dress. I am roughly the same body type as you and I find those clothes to always flatter. I am getting married in a few weeks and I ended up with a Liancarlo dress that is actually very similar. A little more expensive though! But, though the sample dress was too big and long all over, each dress is made to order so they were able to shorten it to my proportions (I'm 5"1'), which will eliminate all of the really intricate alterations that are needed. The lace bottom makes alterations really tricky, as I'm sure you know, so that little detail was incredibly helpful! No matter what you choose, though, I'm sure you'll look wonderful. I adore the two options you were able to show us. Hope we'll be able to see more!

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  22. Wow, thanks so much for sharing this thorough review! I'm wedding dress shopping too and hadn't thought to go the Anthropologie boutique. Now I definitely will--that first dress is gorgeous!

    Style by Joules

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  23. Hi Jean,

    You look lovely in the Seraphina gown. The heart-shaped neckline and silhouette with the defined waist and hips look very flattering on you. I love seeing some of the different styles you've tried on so far.

    For my wedding gown, I ordered "Allure Bridals" through a local bridal store. Since it was a lace gown, length alterations would have been trickier, but fortunately they give you the option of allowing you to order the gown to your height. They measure your "hollow-to-hem" like someone above mentioned and have it made in China. For an additional cost, I was also able to order an additional piece of lace (an extra sleeve), so that I could have the neckline and back keyhole opening altered. My dress had cap sleeves which didn't sit on my shoulders correctly, but the seamstress was able to alter it to fit me. (She might have taken the lace sleeves off the bodice and sewed it back.)

    For anyone interested in Allure Bridals, I learned through the hard way that their size charts are accurate (i.e. true to size). The employee who took my measurements decided to order my gown two sizes smaller than what it was suppose to be. Later on when my gown arrived and I couldn't fit into it, another employee who saw the predicament I was in, said that she wouldn't have ordered it in that size given the size chart.

    For one of my evening gowns, I purchased the fabric from a bridal fabric store and had a seamstress who specializes in wedding gowns make it for me. I loved this gown more than my wedding one because I was able to choose the type of fabric, colour and style.

    I hope you're able to find a wedding gown you love!

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    1. I had the SAME exact issue with an Allure dress! Besides the issue I had with the consultant ordering a size too small, she advised me that it wouldn't be worth ordering to height. For reference, all Allure gowns are 59" hollow to hem, but when I tried the sample size on, it was only about an inch too long on me. I bought wedding shoes that were slightly taller than what I had worn at my initial appointment. Well, I just came back from the store. Not only is the waist too small, the length is far too long and will be too difficult to hem (lace gown) so I'm stuck having to sell the dress and look for a new one now.

      Lesson learned. I'll be much more discerning this time around.

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    2. That is unfortunate to hear that you also had the dress ordered in a size too small! I'm not sure if this is too late, but the seamstress at the bridal store I ordered it from was able to enlarge the dress by two sizes so that I could fit into it. It was stressful because I didn't know if there would be enough fabric in the seam allowance to open it up, but I guess there was. Also, the bridal store paid for my alterations with their recommended seamstress since the sizing mistake was on their side.

      I hope everything works out for you!

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  24. In 2012, I bought my silk crepe wedding gown from Ann Taylor, and it didn't need any alterations. Ann Taylor is a great choice if one wants something simple and elegant - I wanted something simple to go with a waltz-length veil. Though I just took a look at this year's collection, and the designs look more black-tie than wedding-gown.

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  25. Ohmigosh, that Tadashi Shoji dress is BEAUTIFUL and like you said, totally, totally affordable. You look stunning in it!

    Mine was Maggie Sottero. It was one of the first ones I tried on, but I went around to different shops and tried a billion more because I wasn't sure and usually neurotically (to my detriment) exhaust all options. Finally, once I noticed I kept comparing all the dresses to the Maggie Sottero dress I realized that was the dress for me. We just hit our 6 year anniversary and I still have my dress and still love it!

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  26. I'm so excited for you, Jean! You are going to make such a beautiful bride! And what a lovely and thoughtful post! FYI, I actually found that most of the stores I went to around Boston allowed photos (even if they don't expressly say this). These include: L'Elite, Vera Wang, and Vows (a discount dress store that carries many designer one-ofs, it is worth checking out but I found it a bit overwhelming since you have to purchase within a few days or it may get sold). I also loved an adorable boutique called Everthine in Connecticut (which allowed photos of Jenny Packham dresses ;) Happy hunting!

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  27. I'm pretty sure I screamed and got way too excited when you posted you were engaged. I'm just about dying over these two dresses. That first one looked incredible. I love how it fanned out at the bottom, but the second one is gorgeous. I've always dreamed of a princess dress like that and I am swooning. I love that you included the petite friendly tip. Although I'm not getting married anytime soon, I always think about that future struggle!

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  28. Thank you for posting this! While I'm not getting marry I'm petite as well. I'm worry for myself in the future. I'm 4'11 and about 95 lbs. :(

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  29. You look do beautiful! I'm also a petite girl and afraid to wear gowns, may I know your height please?! Thanks!

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  30. Gorgeous!! I got my dress at BHLDN and couldn't be happier :) ps. Isn't their Boston staff the sweetest?!

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  31. I honestly spent more on my Ao Dai and bought my dress off of Ebay. Everyone still liked my dress but it wasn't designer or totally amazing, however, I spent most of the day (morning and table-side toasting) in my Ao Dai, so that was my #1 priority. I enjoyed my Ebay wedding dress, just had to read reviews carefully and really really know my size. The measurements were exactly as described on the listing. Dress came in 1 week and I didn't have to worry about alterations. I'm 5'1" and 110lbs. I could have cinched the waist in more if I was going to lose more weight (stress weight haha), but it all worked out. My dress was only $130 and I don't regret it at all.

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  32. The hollow-to-hem measurement is definitely great for petite frames. I absolutely loved my wedding dress and it would not have been the same if I did not get the hollow to hem measurement since I had a fit-to-flare dressed. My gown was from Alvina Valenta.

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  33. HATED dress shopping--and my first appointment was at a place that not only did not allow photos but actually ripped out all the labels from inside the samples so you couldn't even look it up later. AWFUL. NEVER AGAIN. Saks bridal salon, Vera Wang, and another boutique I went to (The White Dress in Corona del Mar, CA) were all fantastic. They allowed photography and wrote down all of the info (designer, style, price, etc) for my first choice out of the dresses I tried. I ended up going with Vera but highly, highly recommend Saks and White Dress for anyone in the area looking for dresses.

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  34. Beautiful, Jean! Nick took these photos I assume? I'm not superstitious either about the groom not seeing the dress beforehand.

    I went with a friend to David's Bridal when she was shopping for dresses. Oh my gosh, the place was a huge warehouse. There were hundreds of dresses in all kinds of styles and very, very affordable, imo. My friend didn't want to spend more than $400 and there were still plenty of dresses to choose from. They also allow for photos, so you can try on all sorts of styles to see which one is most flattering. Then if you wish to buy from elsewhere, you'll at least know what silhouettes to look for.

    When we were in SF, Elle and I were talking about how we can't wait to see what dress you'll pick. Didn't put any money down on any particular style, but there's still time ;)

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  35. The first look is just stunning!So classic, so elegant, and so you!

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  36. I love the Watters gown on you. I'm also petite at 4"10' and 95lbs. The Vera Wang gowns at Davids Bridals size 0 fit me great off the rack and only needed hemming on the bottom. This definitely saved me a lot of alteration costs. You should definitely give it a try!

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  37. I'm only 5'-0" tall and I wore a Maggie Sottero which worked beautifully on my shorter frame. The alterations included the length (obviously) as well as the shoulders and worked out fine. I love that Watters dress!

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    1. Oh - and I'm in Boston as well and would HIGHLY recommend Precious Memories bridal salon in Malden. They have a huge shop, fantastic assistants, great prices, and labels for everyone! I hope you make it over there!

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  38. I opted not to bother with the bridal boutiques (personal preference - I'm awkward in situations like that) and found my gown secondhand online at preownedweddingdresses.com. The seller and I actually became cross country friends as a result of the transaction and I couldn't have been more pleased with the Wtoo Lycette gown and beaded sash. It was elegant, comfortable (big points) and refreshingly different from what I had envisioned myself wearing. Because the seller was petite and somewhat similar in frame to me, her alterations already absorbed much of the hassle and cost that I would've had to incur if I had purchased off the rack. The only thing I did was find a reputable tailor to carefully remove the lace overlay to adjust the bust to my size. I have no regrets buying secondhand and think it's a great way to give gowns a longer life than one wear, especially if the seller took great care in the gown, as mine did.

    Also, I love the look of the Bhldn gown on you and agree that it is very flattering!

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  39. i love reading this and feeling like i'm re-living my dress experience a bit (but without the stress!) dress shopping was definitely an exciting time for me, but also very discouraging and frustrating at times... i guess i had really specific ideas of what i wanted that were also very vague in that i had no way to actually verbalize what i wanted... there were certain details i liked but i couldn't find them all in one dress (and it probably wouldn't have worked anyway hahah). like you, i had the experience of all but one location preventing me from taking photos. Lovely Bride in LA was amazing and encouraged me to take pictures which was very helpful... honestly, i wanted to find a dress there just because the experience was so good. in general, after a few days of packed in dress shopping, i came away feeling discouraged and like nothing was right. i seriously considered settling on a couple of dresses simply because i didn't think i would find something that.. even with alterations, would look like it was meant for someone my size and shape. obviously all human shapes are different, but i feel like as petite ladies we are at a very particular disadvantage. i know that there are some great tailors out there, but i just felt like there wasn't a dress out there made to fit someone like me.

    so in the end, even though i knew it would likely be more expensive, but i ended up going custom. i had gone to Alina Pizzano in Pasadena during my few days of packed in dress shopping because my mom made an appointment not realizing that it was basically a private studio. We met with the designer and tried on many of her sample gowns. We were impressed with her detailing and that she did so much herself. I hadn't considered custom originally, so when we went back it was an entirely different experience. I still had the issue of not really knowing what i wanted... but knowing there were a lot of things i didn't like and certain details i did like. she asked me a ton of questions about what sorts of things i liked and came up with three different sketches all of which were amazing... we ended up going with one that sort of a combination of everything she drew up and it was absolutely fascinating going from paper to muslin to actual fabric....things i never imagined would work worked out beautifully and my dress was entirely unique and most importantly made to fit both my personality and style as well as my shape and size. Alina was great because always made me feel comfortable, but also appreciated my honesty and was honest in return. She was good about trying to stick within a budget and gave options that were more budget friendly. it was important to Alina that even years after the wedding, you still absolutely love your dress so she made it a point to make it everything you wanted but also timeless. ultimately, you have to do whatever is best for you and whatever makes you feel good!

    and i second the Little Bra Company Sascha! That is exactly what i had sewn into the front of my dress!

    Good luck!!

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  40. I'm 5'1" and found that the cut and silhouette of the dress made a big difference. Being broad-shouldered and a bit muscular (swimmer's body), strapless was just not going to work on me. I ended up with a lovely satin gown, ruched at the waist, with lace straps and partial bodice overlay. It allowed me to have a v-neck to add some height/length to my torso. The satin also had beautiful lace detailing from the small of my back down through the train.

    I got the dress from a boutique with a couple of in-house tailors. Had a couple of alterations visits. I have long-torso/stumpy-legs proportions, so I really had to have the gown hemmed. A lot.

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  41. I want the first dress.

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  42. Beautiful dresses! But aren't you worried that your fiance will see your dress? I kept my dress secret from social media because, well...I didn't want him to see it until the big day!

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  43. Dear Jean, the first one is the right one. Have a nice weekend :) --Anu from Finland

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  44. I wore a dress from David's Bridal, even after trying on more dresses elsewhere. They have alterations in-store (some locs I think) and they did an excellent job, though not cheaper than other places. So you save on the dress but pay full price for the alterations. It wasn't a petite size but it shouldn't really matter since I was altering it anyways.Good luck and keep sharing. I love to re-live the whole wedding thing.

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  45. OMG Jean...I am having my wedding in August next year and I am also searching for a dress that fits well and looks great. So happy to see your posts on this matter and good luck finding your perfect dress!

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  46. Well, you are absolutely going to look gorgeous in whatever lucky dress you choose......but I LOVE the corset and blush combo. It is not something you see everyday and has sort of a whimsical, fairy-tale feel to it (with still keeping it classy, girly and grown-up looking). Plus, if you want to keep a piece of your wedding dress, you can easily just keep the top! :)

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  47. The first wedding dress looks amazing on you! These are some great silhouettes for me to keep in mind in the future since I'm super petite as well! Thanks x

    Cynthia
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  48. Oh I love that full skirt one... gorgeous... However when I bought mine it was a trumpet/mermaid style... I love it till this day!
    Hope
    hchdesigns.blogspot.com

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  49. I love the corset on the second dress. I got married last year and I made my own dress. It was this dress without the sleeves. http://byhandlondon.com/products/elisalex-dress
    I used polyester satin (as it had more body than silk satin), silk organza, lace and silk cotton to line it. The only tip I can give you is wear separate leg stockings, not tights or pantyhose. It makes going to the bathroom easier. Melx

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  50. Wow, you look exquisite in both! I'm partial to the Tadashi Soji piece (probably under the influence of the superb lighting in those photos). I've been following your blog for a month or so now, and it's been immensely helpful. Thanks Jean - keep the posts coming!

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  51. This was such a fun post to read! Keep them coming please as I am also on the hunt for the perfect wedding dress for me, and I need information about good bridal shops!

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  52. Jean, you look stunning. I'm loving all the beautiful dresses.

    xoxo,
    Tiffany

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  53. Can't believe you are going to marry. You two make a wonderful couple (pretty + handsome). So nice that you share your wedding dress pictures with us. This alone makes me want to marry.

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  54. Wow stunning dress!! you look like a princess! Thanks for the name!

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  55. I like the first one (mermaid). The princess gown has too much accent around the bust area to be sophisticated.

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  56. Hi Jean,

    Thank you for the great posts about your hunt for the perfect wedding dress. Being a long time follower of your blog, I imagine seeing you in a style that's both classic and timeless.



    Here's a link to a style of dress you would rock:

    http://cdn.maggiesottero.com/styles/1450_x_1977_front/4/4MD009.jpg

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    1. Btw, it's the "Kiana" dress from the collection. It would look great on a petite frame such as yours.

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  57. You are the most beautiful bride. :-)

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  58. You look gorgeous in both the lace mermaid bridal dress and tulle nude pink gown! And it is really a good idea to go for separates to create the tulle gown look! Thanks for the advice.

    Prudence
    www.prudencepetitestyle.wordpress.com

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  59. Good choices!! I remember how hard was to find the right dress for a petite one... without looking stubby.

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  60. I wish you had done this before I got married a couple of months ago! I wore a Saja dress that I picked up at their boutique in NYC. They are simple but really elegant and was wonderfully ethereal and light for a June wedding in DC. The owner/designer is very helpful and I had it tailored to fit my 5ft frame and it was perfect.

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  61. Can't wait for the day (after you're married) to see which dress you pick! You will be the most beautiful bride in anything you choose. You will know the minute you try it on!! Have fun and enjoy this time of trying on gorgeous gowns, unfortunately time goes by too quickly. Soak it all in!

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  62. enjoy the journey...whichever you pick you are gorgeous in it jean but I like the third one

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  63. Beautiful Jean as always! Either style looks good on you. I was married in 1991 - had our 23rd anniversary this year. I tried on a bunch of gorgeous dresses and knew my favorite. Then I was visiting my parents in NH and saw a gown in the window of a dry cleaner/tailor shop. I liked it but it had too much beading on the bodice. I went in to check. They were willing to take off a lot of the beading (and we discovered a Jewish star underneath for my Jewish wedding!). It was a size 10 and I was a size 6, but even with all the alterations, it was in the hundreds instead of a few thousands like my previous favorite. Even though I still preferred the more expensive one, I was willing to trade several thousand dollars and go with my close second. It was beautiful. But the most important thing was I married my best friend.

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  64. Love the Seraphina gown on you with the beaded sash. Breathtakingly beautiful! Hope you choose that one.

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  65. You should definitely check out Marisa gowns. They're similar in style to the Tadashi one you tried on; beautiful lace work and impeccable shapes. I just got married 2 months ago, and I wore the Martina Liana #504 which was a dream. Knew it was mine before I even tried it on. Wedding dress shopping for me was quite easy. I definitely suggest you take as few of people as possible with you when you shop so that you ensure you pick out the dress you know deep down is true to you and not someone else. Enjoy every minute, it goes by so fast!

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  66. Just got married in September and I, too, surprised myself with my dress choice! After eight boutique appointments and two almost-purchases, I ended up with a Watters ball gown, the Ada, from the Wtoo line. I'm on the petite end of normal (5' 2" and a size 4) BUT with a size D chest, so the structured bodice of the Ada was ideal. My seamstress did a lot of customization and I don't know anyone who hasn't had to have some alterations - just remember to budget for it :) She was so good, I didn't even have to wear a bra!

    That's the best advice I was given - don't leave the tailor until you are 100% satisfied with how your dress fits. Don't be afraid to keep asking and pushing for exactly what you want, otherwise you'll be uncomfortable or nervous about your dress all day and it's not worth it.

    Ultimately, I felt like a princess all day (it surprised me that I even wanted that princessy vibe) and loved my dress so much I never wanted to take it off.

    Best of luck to you in your search!

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  67. My tailor sewed padding directly onto my wedding gown so I didn't wear a strapless bra. And it was wonderful not having to worry about it showing or the bra strap digging into my skin after wearing the gown for hours.

    Be sure to communicate to your tailor exactly what you want. And the bustle is very important as this is how you'll be wearing the gown after the ceremony (if you have a train of any sort). I had an issue with the bustle design my tailor did with my train. I wanted a triple French bustle and she made a one-point over bustle that did not flatter the gown design.

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  68. It's really a shame that most bridal shops don't allow pictures to be taken, since in my experience (and this applies to all clothes, not just bridal gowns) photographs give you a much more accurate and realistic view than mirrors. Besides, if you take pictures, you can really compare the gowns side by side and see which silhouette is most flattering on you.

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  69. Love the BHLDN look on you. I just recently got married and loved my allure wedding dress. It was the first one I tried on! They have great affordable $800-1500 romantic well-made dresses. I wanted a lace V neck for a more flattering neck line (I have broader shoulder for a petite person) and it was beautiful. I'm also super tiny (5'0 85lbs) and it needed a lot of alterations, but my tailor did it all for <$200. Anyway, hope this helps :) http://www.allurebridals.com/products/8973 (it looks super busty on the model, but looked way more modest on me :x

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  70. Your dress looks so beautiful on you! I just got married last year too and was featured in San Diego Wedding Style Magazine. My dress is from Bonny Bridal and is vintage style perfect for a winery wedding. My dress was affordable too. I paint and design cherry blossom jewelry. Check out my blog of my wedding pictures, I hand made lots of the decor

    http://www.kblossoms.com/kblog/our-cherry-blossom-wedding

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  71. Hi Jean!

    I've been a stalker on your blog for a while and absolutely love your blog and style! For the record, both of the dresses look lovely on you, although I do feel like with the first Tadashi dress, you notice more how beautiful YOU look rather than the dress itself, whereas with the Watters dress, it feels a bit more like the dress is wearing you.

    As I am currently in the process of wedding planning I have tried on many, many dresses and finally decided on one (see below for the link if you're interested). Here are my two cents for you and for other ladies in the process!

    1) Fit/shape:
    As a petite asian girl with relatively few curves, after trying on various dresses, I do think the most flattering cut I found on me was either a slim A-line or a fit-n-flare. The key was finding a "well-constructed and structured" dress that could really accent the feminine shape. Over time, I felt that often the quality/construction on the dress depended on the built in boning and quality of material. As a side note- the "softer" the material (i.e. chiffon, tulle), the less structured the dress will be, whereas taffeta/satin is on the other end of the spectrum; lace lies somewhere in the middle.

    I at first gravitated to the simplicity of sheath-type dresses, but found that they did not provide enough underlying structure and felt the shape turned "blah". For the larger a-line/ball gown cuts, I thought these made the waistline very tiny and flattering, but tended to overwhelm my petite figure.

    2) Some great bridal stores in the Boston area:
    - Precious Memories in Malden; great service and selection, VERY reasonably priced
    - Christina's in Andover: this is much more pricey, but they do have a beautiful selection of dresses
    - Alexandra's Boutique: huge selection at fairly reasonable prices, if you're looking for a "Say yes to the dress" experience, it is a great place to go and their service is truly excellent
    - Quick tip: if you find a dress you like in Boston, it may be worth calling stores in LA for a price quote, as their prices can be MUCH cheaper for the same exact dress

    3) Some great "petite"-friendly brands:
    - Maggie Sottero and Casablanca both offer the "hollow to hem" measurement that can "shrink" dresses down to the correct proportion
    - Pronovias offers three different lengths to their dresses
    - Enzoani (especially their Blue line) offers extremely stylish and well-constructed dresses for VERY reasonable prices

    For those interested, after much ado, I ended up with this dress (for less than $1000) and am extremely happy:
    http://enzoani.com/view-collection/blue/archive/dillon-ad

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  72. I was also a very short bride (4 ft 10) and lucked out going a nonconventional route for wedding dress - found a spectacular floor length Sue Wong beaded spaghetti strap dress in very pale ivory at Neiman Marcus. Because it was not a "wedding" dress it was much easier on the pocket book (about $500-$600) and came in size 0 so alterations were pretty minimal - just hemming and shortening the straps. I was so happy with how it turned out and that it looked like it was actually proportionate to me (unlike so many of the dresses I tried on in bridal stores!) I will say I would have never guessed before trying it on that that was the dress I'd go for so by all means think outside your usual box for dress choices! Best wishes! Hope you find the perfect dress for you! :)

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  73. love the first one, you are the most beautiful bride,jean.

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  74. I'm not sure if you've already decided on a dress, but if not, here is my two cents. I am 5' tall and I wore an Anne Barge gown. I got my gown from Kleinfeld's during an Anne Barge Trunk show. I was able to meet her and she is definitely shorter than I am! She said that she tries to design gowns that are flattering on short women, as she knows how difficult it is to find garments to fit right. Good luck!

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  75. Wish I had you and your blog with me while I was shopping for my own wedding dress! With alterations needed on my 5'1" frame, most dressed priced themselves out of my range. Also, so many of the sample sizes were so large that it was impossible to imagine myself looking good in them at all. J.Crew was the best out of all of them (BHLDN wasn't open by then) but I ended up creating my own outfit for a tropical elopement that perfectly fit me! Corset tops from White House Black Market in 00 are perfect for petites with small busts!

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  76. A great resource for getting a dream couture wedding gowns is at PreOwnedWeddingDresses.com like this romantic Monique Lhuillier Wedding Gown.

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